Ever heard of the statement “The hand
that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world?” Women have been
delegated, by society, to be the care-givers nurturers with the responsibility
to take care of the children.
By Madam Lyn
This role is vital as the early stages
of a child's life shape how they view the world. Due to the wave of new age
feminism, this child-minding role is generally frowned upon in some circles,
but I beg to differ. Every job has its significance.
My husband and I run a number of
businesses and I work mainly from the home office. We were blessed with three
children, a five year old, three-year-old and a one-year-old. I was recently
humbled at the amount of work it takes to cater to these three and the other
children (the businesses). My body has been so sleep deprived that getting a
full night’s sleep is out of the ordinary. I now look at child-minders in a
whole new light, it’s definitely no walk in the park. It has tested every ounce
of patience I have. Please note I was coming from a corporate setting and I
used to spend my days in an office and only spent a few hours after work with
my first son. I personally never enjoyed that.
Now it’s different. I make my own hours
and at the same time be mummy. I have limited sleeping hours and I hardly sit
down. I write and work on the go but I have this overwhelming sense of peace at
the same time. The kind of peace that only Jesus Christ can give you. My
children ask me about everything, from names of colours to animal names and I
am glad I have the luxury of being there to answer them. So to all those
working Moms out there I salute you!
Having to build a career with hours you
don't dictate and then come home to do homework, listen to school stories, make
dinner, make sure dinner is eaten, deal with toddler pallets or teenage mood
swings and still have time to smile. You are my heroes. Mums are special! Those
women that don't have children are no less special in any way. They just have
different roles as compared to mine. I remember a time when it was just my
husband and I, before all these blessings came to us. Our days were filled with
lots of activity too. It was work, work and more work! Tiring none the less. I
worked because I had to. That's the reality of so many women out there. You do
what you have to, not what you love, just so you can earn a living. Those are
warriors.
I believe one of Gods greatest gifts is
the ability to recognise and fulfil Gods purpose in our lives. When you get
that, you cease to exist but begin to live. I pray you join me for more
introspective journeys and lessons gained as I soldier through this adventure called
life.